I'm not one to put the entire blame on someone unless I really REALLY feel that that's the case or if its not a situation or problem that involves me and only requires me to be a judge.

Having said that, it really hurts to feel like all the fault is being thrown at me. Even if the person does not feel this way in the slightest, the conversation hardly shows it. I know that I will constantly mention my faults before I explain yours only because I don't want you to feel the way I feel now.

At times like this, all I can say is, I have broad shoulders.